Growing up as a military kid, I learned resiliency and drive at a young age. I have always been a BIG planner girl, taking every opportunity I could to plan a fashion show, talk show, or family trip. My dad even joked with me that I “needed a planner for my planner”.  While this drive of mine was occasionally comedic, it gave me the strength to pursue my dreams and go after what I wanted.

During my early teen years, I struggled with my identity. I craved popularity and I was willing to suppress my personality and dreams to get there. A few years of this way of life left me brokenhearted, confused, and in disgust with myself. Social media also played a huge role in my life and choices… no surprise. I distinctly remember arguing with my mom one day many years ago. As we stood in her bathroom with the beautiful lighting and large mirror, she begged me to say “I love myself” in the mirror. And for the life of me, I couldn’t say it. I did not love myself and I refused to admit it. After a few more breakups, arguments with my mom, and broken friendships, I began to change.

As I began to love myself, I began to love my body more. I started working out for strength and health rather than to be small. Additionally, I began to respect myself and my decisions. My mind became my new treasure and I wanted to guard it as best as I could. While I still struggled with whom I was becoming, this was a beautiful start to becoming the young woman I am now.

Fast forward a couple of years to 2023. A new year, a new opportunity, but not a new me. I move forward into this new phase of my life with my past, claiming the growth I have experienced. I have a new-found respect for my peace and the energy I surround myself with. I have created this blog as an inspiration to both myself, and you. A space to learn more about the world, and the person you are evolving into. I hope this page gives you the strength to take hold of your life, try something new, and grow in the places you already love.